Confessions of a Wife #53

There’s always something to do in the home. Laundry, dishes, cleaning etc. When we’re home together I spend the first 15-30 mins tidying up so there’s not much to do on the weekends. But when he’s working the night shift, I do absolutely nothing when I get home. Clothes off (the way he does it),…

Confessions of a Wife #27

I stumble over the shoes in the hallway, the bag in the living room entryway and the coat halfway on the couch. Breadcrumbs that ultimately lead to where he’s planted himself when he got home.  I wonder if he knows that the next time it happens I’m going to throw them all over the balcony……

Confessions of a Wife: #18

Ever since our pre-marital counseling he doesn’t mind going to bed if he’s mad. Another couple had shared that they feel it’s sometimes best to sleep on issues so they can re-address it when they’re “fresh-minded”. Ugh! This doesn’t work for me…I can’t sleep. I toss and turn, my blood is still boiling…how can he sleep?…

Confessions of a Wife: The Second Year

I had a conversation with my cousin about relationships. Men specifically. How we as women sometimes react poorly when we’re upset. Seeing only red and spitting as much fire as we can in order to show him we “don’t need [you]”… We always know how to cut the deepest. But this is counterproductive. It only fuels…